Paul Edwin Kurlfink Jr.

Memories of Christmas,

    Christmas was the best when you and Matt were little. Christmas at the Kurlfink house, what can I say, a blast. We had Christmas Eve at our house. Of course that included everyone. Cookie, Auggie, Melissa, Gi, Michael, Mam, my mom, sometimes Uncle Jack lots of friends stopping by. The food and drink flowed. Hey Paul remember the stinky fish Pap Pap used to make. I tried for a few years to carry on the tradition but I got vetoed. Only ones that ate it was Grandma Lazzaro and your Dad. Then there were the smelts, calamari, shrimp, crab legs, lupini beans, cookies, etc. I could go on and on. It was not the same without you here. It never will be again.  The memories are failing me right now. They say grief does that and that the memories will come back slowly. I miss you Paul . Give Benjamin a hug for his Mama and know that you are always in my thoughts    Love Mom

paul was a good friend of mine. but where i think all us guys got close was up camp. it seemed like we left the rest of the world back at home and we drank,laughed,and laughed some more.kurlfink,warywoda,slyania and i we used to have christmas grab bag but not a regular one we had to get it out of big pickup yes the garbage i had kurlfink i gave him crutches and a drill that i think didnt work and thats why im missing him this time of year" i love and miss you buddy" merry christmas

Miss you, your laugh and your greeting of "Hello, Hello it's just me!" when you come through the door. I seem to always have a big supply of pop at the house.
You are always on my mind and in my prayers!
Miss you and Love you!
Mam

Happy Halloween Paul,

    Having a sad night. Halloween was always special, since your birthday was so close to Halloween, it always took on a Halloween  theme. Seems like yesterday when you and Matthew used to go trick or treating. I don't know who enjoyed the all the candy you and your brother or me and Daddy. Pillowcases full. No wonder I was always at the dentist. I think my favorite Halloween was the one when you and your brother wanted to dress up like girls. I think that was the most fun I ever had helping you get ready. My dresses, wigs, heels, makeup. You both looked so good and so funny. I finally had the little girls I never had LOL. I'll have to look for a picture. Love you. See you in my dreams.    Love Mom

Well I really don't know where to start or where to end.  I have so many memories I could write a book.  Hey maybe I will, and share the wealth with little Paul.  Got Damn I miss you BRO!.  We went through so much together.  Hell, we even made it thru Shady's "Frank the Tank" days, and Tom's Chippendale's auditions...TOO MANY! I miss all you guys!  Think about it...Paul was the glue that kept us together.  He was the center of all our friendships with one another in our circle.  Hopefully Paul will find a way to reunite us all.  I wish you were here to be in my wedding this November.  But it's cool, cause I know you will be watching!  I love you dog, give Joel a pound, and my paps a big hug for me.  Thanks for all the memories....I never forget you!  Take a look at Ava!